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I REFER to the report, "Birthday prank gone too far?" (my paper, Nov 14).
Although the incident seems to have been resolved following a response from the principal of Anglo-Chinese Junior College (ACJC), Mrs Kelvyna Chan, questions still remain.
Firstly, while many agree that birthday pranks have become a norm among students these days, one should never underestimate the possibility of students using this as an excuse to victimise fellow students on their birthdays.
Secondly, although the letter from Mrs Chan stated that the girl was prepared for the celebration, the very idea that she subjected herself to such "fun" is clear indication of masochistic tendencies, for which she should be counselled.
Thirdly, if we assume that the girl was indeed having fun and not being bullied, it is then obvious that today's students are unaware of the hazards of such antics.
For example, the report stated that the girl was struggling and crying "no", and shouting: "I really hate all of you!"
One might see these as deliberate attempts made by the girl to add drama to the situation.
However, would immature teenagers be able to tell when their "victim" is genuinely screaming for help?
They might be too engrossed in carrying out the prank, thus creating the possibility of its going overboard.
It is not enough for ACJC to counsel only the students who were involved on the possible hazards of such activities.
The message needs to be conveyed to students in every school, as prevention is better than cure.
Mr Teo Seng Ann
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