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The Sunday Times
Valuable lessons from unsung heroes and heroines

I refer to Dr Lee Wei Ling's article last Sunday, 'Courage of an unknown heroine'.

Her account of hospital housekeeper Moiri is not only interesting but also highly enlightening. It highlights the importance of one's attitude in making one's life a success despite misfortunes.

It was not Moiri's education or social status but rather her courage, cheerful attitude and hardworking nature which made a difference in her life.

Her story reminds me of a music teacher who lives in India.

He was born crippled but instead of lamenting about what he did not have, he focused his attention on what he had - his other faculties and a mesmerising voice.

He started learning music and excelled in it. Soon, he was invited for public performances. He had to be carried to be seated on the dias but once he started singing, his captivated audience totally forgot his physical defect. He also taught music to make a living, which gave him both economic freedom and peace of mind.

All this would not have happened if he had just felt sorry for himself for being born a cripple and given up on life.

We have many unsung heroes and heroines among us whose qualities are worthy of emulation. We should feel proud of, and learn from, them.

On the other hand, we also have people among us who resort to suicide over the slightest problems that come their way.

Life is precious, so we should not give up so easily, but fight till the last - with the right spirit.

Kanchana Sundar (Mrs)

Inspired by Moiri's courage in adversity

I have had sleepless nights in recent weeks as I was depressed over some personal problems.

But after reading Dr Lee Wei Ling's article, 'Courage of an unknown heroine', about Moiri's positive attitude in the face of hardship, I realised there are many people who face greater problems, but who still carry on with their lives with no self-pity.

The problem with me is that mentally, I am not brave, and am easily upset when problems crop up in my life.

I agree with Dr Lee that 'it's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters'.

Life is short, and we should make the best use of our lives instead of wallowing in self-pity and regret.

I thank Dr Lee for her wonderful article, and promise to stay happy and positive no matter how bad the going in life is.

Sin Kin Boo

She makes world a better place

The excellent article by Dr Lee Wei Ling, 'Courage of an unknown heroine', ended with the sentence: 'She is a much happier person than many who are richer and more educated than her.'

I would like to add: Moiri also makes a greater contribution to society than many who are richer and more educated. Moiri, by her diligence, courtesy and cheerfulness, lights up a corner of the world and makes it a better place.

Eugene Tan

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This article was first published in The Straits Times .

 
 
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